Maybe this was my first introduction to Mary holding baby Jesus, which I love.
Friday, December 19, 2008
Nativities
Maybe this was my first introduction to Mary holding baby Jesus, which I love.
Thursday, December 18, 2008
Friday Five: Countdown to Christmas

Songbird writes for RevGalPalsBlog: There are only five full days before Christmas Day, and whether you use them for shopping, wrapping, preaching, worshiping, singing or traveling or even wishing the whole darn thing were over last Tuesday, there's a good chance they will be busy ones.
Since I am not a pastor and since I have no paying job, my things "to do" are more mundane than everyone else's. They still hang over me though. Plus, I'm getting ready for our empty nest to swell to eight people with all my children and their partners coming here--and three dogs to add to our two!
1. Find MJ's stocking gift that I put in a "safe" place and cannot find.
2. Clean my office, so the sofa can fold out into its thin sofa-bed mattress.
3. Make all the cookies "ordered" by each member of my family, plus extras to give to some friends.
4. Plan the vegetarian and carnivore meals to be fixed next week and get all the ingredients. Then cook!
5. Clean and wash for the company, while the company is here, and after they leave!
Stir me from placidness
Spirit, spirit of gentleness,
blow through the wilderness, calling and free,
Spirit, spirit of restlessness,
stir me from placidness, wind, wind on the sea.
You moved on the waters, you called to the deep,
then you coaxed up the mountains from the valleys of sleep;
and over the eons you called to each thing;
“Awake from your slumbers and rise on your wings.”
You swept through the desert, you stung with the sand
and you goaded your people with a law and a land;
and when they were blinded with idols and lies,
then you spoke through your prophets to open their eyes.
You sang in a stable, you cried from a hill,
then you whispered in silence when the whole world was still;
and down in the city you called once again,
when you blew through your people on the rush of the wind.
You call from tomorrow, you break ancient schemes.
From the bondage of sorrow all the captives dream dreams;
our women see visions, our men clear their eyes.
With bold new decisions your people arise.
(James K. Manley (20th century), hymn-writer. Published in Everflowing Streams (1981). "Spirit," l. 1-4 (1978).)
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
Christmas Baking
So I am baking a lot. Last night I made our family favorite "Holiday Sparklers" while MJ and her boy friend CS helped. Somehow I ruined the first two sheets of cookies because I haphazardly set the ovens 100 degrees above the needed temperature--425 instead of 325! That certainly produced crispy brown cookies that ended up in the trash can.
I asked each member of my family to tell me the ONE cookie they liked, so I would bake just the kinds that are favorites. Four out of eight said Holiday Sparklers, but others picked cookies from the best cookie cookbook I have ever found: The Wellesley Cookie Exchange Cookbook, which is out of print. My mother gave me my copy, which is well-worn now, in 1990.

I highly recommend this cookbook, as I have never tried a recipe in it that was not good! If you can find a good used copy, grab it!
Tonight I am baking Double Gingersnaps, a recipe submitted by Jody Saville:
1 1/2 cups butter
2 cups sugar
2 eggs
1/2 cup molasses
4 cups flour
2 tsp. baking soda
2 tsp. cinnamon
2 tsp. ground cloves
4 tsp. ground ginger
Sugar for rolling
Cream butter and sugar. Add eggs and molasses and blend well.
Mix dry ingredients together. Add half of dry mixture to creamed mixture and blend well. Add remaining half and blend by hand.
Chill dough for several hours. (Though I rarely do--the dough is sticky but manageable.)
At this point, you may bake whatever portion of the dough you desire, and refrigerate or freeze the remainder. (Dough keeps in the refrigerator, well covered, for at least a week. To freeze, wrap dough well in plastic or foil.)
To bake, pull off pieces of dough to make balls the size of a walnut. Roll the balls in sugar and place on ungreased cookie sheets.
Bake at 350 degrees F. for 15-18 minutes. Balls will flatten out and tops will be crackled.
(Recipe may be halved or doubled.) Makes 5-6 dozen cookies.
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Come, Lord Jesus. Come.
by Christina Rossetti
"Come," Thou doest say to Angels,
To blessed Spirits, "Come";
"Come," to the Lambs of Thine Own flock,
Thy little Ones, "Come home."
"Come"--from the many-mansioned house
The gracious word is sent,
"Come"--from the ivory palaces
Unto the Penitent.
O Lord, restore us deaf and blind,
Unclose our lips tho' dumb;
Then say to us, "I come with speed,"
And we will answer, "Come."
I think I like this so much, because it reminds of the early morning mass at Lebh Shomea in Sarita where the priest says over the Eucharist, "Come, Lord Jesus." The people respond with, "Come."
I haven't gone there for over a year. I miss the quiet time spent there.
Looking at their website, I am reminded of the beautiful creches they arrange with plants and flowers they have dried in the time before Advent. Here are pictures from their website:
As we prepare for the birth of our Lord Jesus, we invite you
to share some Advent scenes at the House of Prayer.
To join in our joyful celebration of the Incarnation, we invite you
to spend time with some Christmas scenes at the House of Prayer.
Sunday, December 14, 2008
Flourless Chocolate Cake
For the first time in my life I baked a flourless chocolate cake yesterday. I am wondering if it is like "Chocolate Decadence," which was once a popular dessert in the 1980s. A friend was having a dinner party last night, and when I volunteered to help, she gave me this recipe. It was somewhat complicated, but well worth the trouble.one 9-inch cake
1/4 pound unsweetened chocolate
1 Tbsp. water, coffee, Cognac, OR brandy
1/ cup plus 2 Tbsp. butter
4 eggs, separated
1 tsp. vanilla
1/4 tsp. salt
- 1. Put chocolates and water in top of double boiler. Melt over warm water. Removed from heat. Add butter in 5 pieces, blending each piece into the chocolate before adding the next piece. Stir in 1/4 cup sugar until dissolved.
- Beat egg yolks until light and thickened. Gradually beat in chocolate mixture so it does not separate. Add vanilla.
- Beat eggs whites and salt until foamy with electric mixer; gradually add remaining 1/4 cup sugar and beat until stiff. Fold whites into chocolate batter.
- Pour into buttered and sugared 9-inch spring-form pan. Bake at 425 degrees F. for 15 minutes (no longer; the cake will fall slightly, then it will firm as it cools). Put cake on wire rack to cool; remove from pan.
- Sprinkle with confectioners' sugar or serve with whipped cream OR Brush warm cake with seedless raspberry preserves, thinned over heat with a little water.
I baked it and topped it with raspberry preserves. It looked sophisticated and elegant. With 16 people at the dinner last night, half of it is still left. One cannot eat a large piece, because it is so rich.
My friend gave the half cake back to me, because she said it freezes beautifully. Now I have our Christmas dinner dessert!
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Go here for more chocolate dessert recipes.
Friday, December 12, 2008
Christmas MEME
1. Wrapping paper or gift bags?
Wrapping paper. I am trying to get rid of my collection of gift bags on Freecycle.org.
2. Real tree or Artificial?
Real
3. When do you put up the tree?
Usually by Dec. 15, which is very LATE according to Texas standards.
4. When do you take the tree down?
Usually on New Year's Day, but this year it will be on Dec. 28, because the next day we start our drive to Albuquerque, NM for Richard Rohr's New Year's conference on the enneagram.
5. Do you like eggnog?
Not really. My eldest daughter AE used to love it; I'm not sure if she still does.
6. Favorite gift received as a child?
A bride doll with high heels when I was in second grade.
7. Hardest person to buy for?
My husband.
8. Easiest person to buy for?
My youngest daughter MJ.
9. Do you have a nativity scene?
I have way too many, as I collect them.
10. Mail or email Christmas cards?
I love to mail Christmas cards. I am very pleased that my children, though three of the four are on their own, continue to contribute to our "Christmas letter," a copied two-page letter I enclose in each Christmas card. Since my mother died in 1992, each person in our family has written his/her own section--a tradition that is continuing (I hope in the future).
11. Worst Christmas gift you ever received?
A book on how-to make potpourri.
12. Favorite Christmas Movie?
"Its a Wonderful Life."
13. When do you start shopping for Christmas?
Usually around Thanksgiving.
14. Have you ever recycled a Christmas present?
Yes.
15. Favorite thing to eat at Christmas?
"Holiday Sparklers," a shortbread like cookie with three chocolate chips inside it.
16. Lights on the tree?
Of course.
17. Favorite Christmas song?
"Mary, Did You Know?" by Kathy Matea
18. Travel at Christmas or stay home?
Stay home. I am so lucky that my children are all coming home this Christmas!
19. Can you name all of Santa's reindeer's?
Almost
20. Angel on the tree top or a star?
Yes: a starched, crocheted one
21. Open presents Christmas Eve or morning?
We open one each on Christmas Eve and the rest on Christmas morning.
22. Most annoying thing about this time of the year?
All the ads that started before Thanksgiving, just like the Christmas decorations coming out in some stores after Halloween.
23. Favorite ornament theme or color?
I love the ones that my mother and children made.
24. Favorite for Christmas dinner?
Same meal as for Thanksgiving--turkey and stuffing.
25. What do you want for Christmas this year?
I want each person in my family to appreciate the time we have together.
26. What do you like most about Christmas?
Everything--joy, tradition, family, love.
If you want to play, leave a comment here. It will be fun to read others' answers.
Advent Longing
In the darkness of the season, in the silence of Mary’s womb,
new life waits and grows.
Hope is shaped in hidden places,
on the edges, in the depths
far from the blinding lights and deafening sounds of consumer frenzy.
In the darkness and silence of my own life,
I wait,
listening for the whisper of angel wings,
longing for a genuine experience of mystery,
hoping for a rekindling of joy and the establishment of peace.
I lean into the darkness
and silence.
Expectant.
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Time to get ready

I love poinsettias, always have and always will. The red ones are gorgeous and bring the holiday spirit home to me, especially as I am feeling so much better.
It is funny to say, but last night I suddenly realized, "I feel like myself!" After three days of being sick, I felt better. I was still "myself" when I was ill, though the energy was not there. I'm glad to be "back"!
Now it is time to decorate for Christmas. I collect nativity scenes, especially ones from other countries. Time to move the various knick-knacks to make room for these creches.
That reminds me of last year's post on Nifty Nativities. That's where I revealed my love of images where Mary is holding the baby Jesus, which doesn't happen often enough in my eyes!
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Perpetual Advent
To read the rest of Mary Earle's short article, go here.
Tuesday, December 9, 2008
Monday, December 8, 2008
Saturday, December 6, 2008
Gay Marriage with Jack Black and others
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Big Wedding Weekend
"The Five" at DC and AA's wedding 9-2-06WW, CD, DC (my son), SW, BT
BT is getting married on Saturday!
Due to the history of "The Five," their parents are invited to Friday night's rehearsal dinner. For us, it probably is also because both DC and AA are in the wedding parties. And I have been asked to give the meal blessing there.
The wedding is on Saturday night. Youngest daughter MJ is going to come with us, since she is very fond of "The Five" guys, who were all her big brothers as she grew up. (They are ten years older than she is.)
It will be a happy and enjoyable weekend!
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Conveniently, I can also attend the monthly mystics talk in San Antonio, as I will be there on Saturday morning. This is Year 2 of Christian Mysticism: History, Wisdom and Insights. It is sponsored by both Oblate School of Theology (where I may someday earn my master's degree in Theology) and Contemplative Outreach of San Antonio. Saturday's talk will be on "Dominican Spirituality: Dominic and Catherine of Sienna."
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
Christ's Dependence
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Look Out!
John Dear has written an excellent article about Advent, Advent: Time to be on the look out.
He writes:
"The Gospel would shake us from our weariness. 'Don't sleep while Mumbai burns. Don't yield to the culture's allures: shopping, selfishness, indifference, violence and war. Don't act as if there is no God, as if change is impossible, as if there's nothing you can do. Don't sleep as apocalypse encroaches. Don't remain unaware of the world's agony. Wake up! Look around! See what's happening. Get ready for peace!'"
And then goes on with this:
"And so this Advent let's become visionaries. Let's reclaim our imaginations and say "Yes, we can. Yes, a new world is possible; indeed, a new world is coming" --- a new world without war, poverty, nuclear weapons, violence or global warming. Get ready for it. Urge others to prepare. Such preparation is the spiritual task at hand.
"A final blessing. May these holy Advent days renew our lives, lead us to peace, fill us with grace and hope, disarm our hearts, turn us back toward the God of peace, and make us faithful watchers, ready for Jesus and his Christmas gift of peace.
"Together, we sing: 'O come o come, Emanuel! Come, Lord Jesus.'"
Go here to read the entire articleWorld AIDS Day
Last night I attended the annual AIDS Day memorial service, which was at my church this year. It was a small gathering, as the service had not been well advertised. Still, it was lovely, especially the music.I went remembering an older couple whose son Keith died of AIDS over ten years ago, as they took me to my first such service. Sadly, the husband died last year, and I haven't seen his wife SB since his funeral.
I found her and sat with her during the service. My memories were strengthened by being with SB and her telling me that one year ago was the funeral service for her husband. We reconnected in loving memory and our present re-connection. SB easily sees things as "God's hand" and we both agreed God brought us together.
Through Keith's illness and death, his family came to embrace LGBT causes and people, as well as HIV/AIDS. I remember taking a friend to their house to see one of the AIDS quilts that was traveling around the U.S. a decade ago. They stood up when many in this conservative community in south Texas ignored and/or rejected gay people. I could see that SB still knows and supports people here, by all the names she mentioned who had died and the various people she introduced me to afterwards.
I'm glad we were brought together again. I needed that reminder of how much I care about her; I too easily get busy and do not see or talk to those I love.
Monday, December 1, 2008
Sunday, November 30, 2008
Doubt
"And thus I doubt. Doubt is to me the handmaiden to faith, its cop, the one that keeps faith straight. To doubt is an indication of freedom and a guard against fanaticism. But it is also so easy to doubt, so easy to be cynical, that the job appears to be to enlarge the part that believes, but only to enlarge it by taking the path made painful by the doubt and with the integrity born of the doubt rather than the inflation born of sentiment, heightened emotion, or the sometimes false camaraderie of a faith community.
"In The Production of the Word, his essay on Van Gogh, John Berger writes: "For an animal its natural environment and habitat are a given; for a man [sic]. . . reality is not a given: it has to be continually sought out, held--I am tempted to say salvaged.'
"Faith is the name I put to the seeking out, the holding, the salvage operation." (4)
Connected to these thoughts is a post at Quaker Dave's that features an editorial by Leonard Pitts: Because you might not see this on too many other “progressive” blogs…
Saturday, November 29, 2008
Thanksgiving Pictures
Tomorrow, the first Sunday in Advent, BJ and Troy will drive back to Houston. MJ will go back to San Antonio with her boy friend CS, whom she will take to the San Antonio Airport so he can return to school at Stanford. MJ will go back to Trinity University for the next few weeks until her winter break.
Advent Begins
- Ruth's Anticipating Advent: Anglican prayer beads
- Fran's Advent. Calendar.: video of Rowan Williams talking about Advent
- Jennifer's Advent Beginnings: waiting and Gunilla Norris
- Jan Richardson's blog The Advent Door: Entering a Contemplative Christmas
"Waiting, as we see it in the people on the first pages of the Gospel, is waiting with a sense of promise. 'Zechariah, . . . . your wife Elizabeth is to bear you a son.' 'Mary, . . . .Listen! You are to conceive and bear a son' (Luke 1:13, 31). People who wait have received a promise that allows them to wait. They have received something that is at work in them, like a seed that has started to grow. This is very important. We can only really wait if what we are waiting for has already begun for us. So waiting is never a movement from nothing to something. It is always a movement from something to something more. Zechariah, Mary, and Elizabeth were living with a promise that nurtured them, that fed them, and that made them able to stay where they were. And in this way, the promise itself could grow in them and for them." (32-33)
"The secret of waiting is the faith that the seed has been planted, that something has begun. Active waiting means to be present fully to the moment, in the conviction that something is happening where you are and that you want to be present to it. A waiting person is someone who is present to the moment, who believes that this moment is the moment." (33)
"Simone Weil, a Jewish writer, said, 'Waiting patiently in expectation is the foundation of the spiritual life."(37)
Friday, November 28, 2008
Day after Thanksgiving 2008
This is from last year's Day After Thanksgiving. Same holds true, though I did not shop today. Instead, I drove from Austin to Corpus Christi. I had no desire to shop and still don't.We had a nice time with lots of eating at my son and daughter-in-law's house in Austin. Getting reconnected with her parents is nice, especially since we will see them at a wedding next weekend in San Antonio.
I am still trying to give thanks. As I told someone in spiritual direction last week, it helps one's attitude to say "thank you" for every little thing: from taking a breath to being able to sit down, get up, and move my hand. I am trying to stay in a grateful frame of mind.
By the way, if you have never read Gratefulness: The Heart of Prayer by David Steindl-Rast, gift yourself with this book. As the extended title suggests, it is "an approach to life in fullness." Maybe it is time for me to re-read this favorite book of mine.
Thursday, November 27, 2008
Happy Thanksgiving!
For rest and shelter of the night,
For health and food,
For love and friends,
For everything Thy goodness sends.
- Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-1882)
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Tomorrow is Thanksgiving in the USA

I just baked a pecan pie to take to my son and daughter-in-law's for the dinner tomorrow in Austin. This afternoon I am going to fix our traditional stuffing and cook a small turkey just for our family. We like to have leftover sandwiches! Tomorrow morning we'll drive to Austin for the two-family Thanksgiving with AA's family and our family. I am still very impressed that AA is such a hostess after only two years of marriage!
And AA just called asking me if I was bringing "the" green jello salad? I had not planned on it, but she said DC called her from work and asked if we were having it. I never knew anyone was attached to that lime and fruit jello salad that appears every Thanksgiving and Christmas (because that's what my mother did!). Guess the jello salad is a "tradition" I had not realized.
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Jan, reading glasses and leaves
Here I am looking out our front door at MJ when she got her new camera in June--with my ever-present reading glasses on. I have so many pairs of glasses laying around the house, but can still get panicky when I cannot find a pair. Unlike me, husband CB has three designated pairs--on the table where he reads the newspaper, by his computer desk, and always in his pocket. I am much more haphazard.Wreaths are very popular in this part of TX for front doors. I have various seasonal ones in trash bags under the bed. Right now the door is bare, because I've never gotten out the wreath with leaves on it. Soon, I'll just get the Christmas one out. . . .That's sad though, because I love fall leaves and have ignored my (fake) ones this year. (There are no autumnal colors in Corpus Christi.)
I still have a bowl of dried leaves that daughter AE sent me from Germany about five years ago.
Stuffing oneself and its consequences
Monday, November 24, 2008
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Saturday, November 22, 2008
Buy Nothing Christmas?
So here's another site I have found about spending in this holiday season. It was started by Canadian Mennonites: Buy Nothing Christmas. I'm not ready to buy nothing, but I am interested in the alternative suggestions they list here. There are 50, so one idea or more may be relevant to a family that isn't ready to eliminate all spending.Resources, like book suggestions and printable info, can be found here.
And on this page, Aiden Schlichting Enns writes:
PEOPLE CAN CHANGE
"How can we, as ordinary people, change society for the better? I'm not a politician, lobbyist, professor or big-time consultant (I'm currently a graduate student and a journalist). I'm tired of feeling like I can't do anything.
"So, even if it's insignificant, I've decided to participate in a Buy Nothing Christmas. It's an experiment - I'm curious to see what happens. I think it's a great way to challenge our own consumer mindset, to put our faith into action, to offer a prophetic "no" to unfettered free-market consumer capitalism, and an excellent way to generate some good dinner-table discussions on the topic of economics, politics, religion, and what we're not getting each other for Christmas."
I like Aiden's observations. . . .reminds me of Buy Nothing Day.Thursday, November 20, 2008
Superior Scribbler Award
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Well, here's how this thing works:
*Each Superior Scribbler must in turn pass The Award on to 5 most-deserving Bloggy Friends.
*Each Superior Scribbler must link to the author & the name of the blog from whom he/she has received The Award.
* Each Superior Scribbler must display The Award on his/her blog, and link to this Post, which explains The Award.
* Each Blogger who wins The Superior Scribbler Award must visit this post and add his/her name to the Mr. Linky List. That way, we'll be able to keep up-to-date on everyone who receives This Prestigious Honor!
*Each Superior Scribbler must post these rules on his/her blog.
Now it is difficult to choose bloggers who have not already been chosen for this award. I choose ALL on my blog list on the left, but specifically honor these five:
Jennifer at An Orientation of Heart describes her life, ministry, and books she is reading. She always chooses beautiful images to go with quotes and other reflections. Not only has she introduced me to new books to read, but new artists to explore.
Roberta at Spiritually Directed posts every day with spiritual quotes and poems combined with unique images that inspire and confound me.
Dave at The Quaker Agitator makes me want to be a Friend like he is. He blogs about the injustices of the world that I often ignore, except that he won't let me. His quote on the masthead tells his philosophy: "Where ignorance is our master, there is no possibility of real peace."
Katherine at Meaning and Authenticity is the friend who brought me into the blogging world. Her blog title tells you exactly what she writes about--religion, spirituality, psychology, and politics--passionately and honestly.
Seething Mom writes scathingly about the bigotry towards gays in the USA from the perspective of a mother of a gay child, just as I am. She expresses what I often cannot. She defends those who are so marginalized in our society.
Black Friday

Black Friday is what the day after Thanksgiving is known as; a major shopping day in the USA. That is probably why I am staying an extra day in Austin with daughter MJ, but now I am re-thinking that reasoning because of learning about Buy Nothing Day. First I looked at this article by Eugene Cho here, on Jim Wallis' God's Politics blog.
So that sent me to the Buy Nothing Day site.
And now look at the short (1 1/2 minutes) video I found about it:
So what do YOU think?
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Gift of Prayer
Stanley Hauerwas, Prayers Plainly Spoken, p. 23
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Richard Rohr and the Enneagram

I am very excited that I am going to this Richard Rohr conference over New Year's Eve in Albuquerque, NM! I am also amazed, because dear husband CB is going with me, even though he does NOT want to attend any of the meetings. And I only learned this today, because one of his fellow choir members told me that CB was talking about me wanting to go, which was news to me. I'd talked to CB about it this weekend, but he was discouraging about the expense of air fares and did not want to talk about it. With the "percolating" time, he decided to gift me with this!
It will be good to hear Richard Rohr speak and also learn more about the enneagram. I have haphazardly looked into it, but have varied between different numbers. . . .Duh!
This is what the website says about the conference:
"When we learn things deeply it is usually because we can see a pattern within ourselves, and then we cannot deny the truth in general. The enneagram is a patterning tool that moves people rather quickly beyond black and white thinking, beyond mere psychological theories, to see, instead, through the lens of human personality. This is why we find ever more knowing flowing from the Enneagram--and non-dual knowing, at that.
"Russ Hudson and Richard Rohr will lead you on a journey of laughing and weeping at yourself and the world. They will help you uncover some of the ever more fruitfulness of this marvelous spiritual tool!
"The weekend will offer lectures, practices and affinity groupings, all in a context of transformation for our selves, compassion for our companions, and prayer for the world."
It sounds like an enervating way to start the New Year!
Butterscotch Brownies
You can tell that this is an OLD recipe, because there is so much fat and sugar in it. BUT these are very good!
1 cup brown sugar
1 egg
3/4 cup flour
1 tsp. baking powder
1/2 tsp. salt
1/2 tsp. vanilla
optional 1/2 cup chopped nuts
Grease an 8 inch square pan.
In a saucepan melt the butter over low heat. Take from heat and stir in brown sugar.
Into cooled mixture, stir in 1 egg.
Mix together flour, baking powder, and and salt. Then add to wet mixture.
Stir in vanilla and nuts, if desired. Spread in pan.
Bake for 25 minutes in 350 degree F. oven.
Monday, November 17, 2008
More about Sarah Palin. . .yet again
Maureen Dowd--column here. (The column is more about Hillary than Sarah.)
And a friend emailed me the "most emailed" link (as of this moment) at The New York Times, which is by Dick Cavett--"The Wild Wordsmith of Wasilla." Here are a few of his gems:
"I suppose it will be recorded as among political history’s ironies that Palin was brought in to help John McCain. I can’t blame feminists* who might draw amusement from the fact that a woman managed to both cripple the male she was supposed to help while gleaning an almost Elvis-sized following for herself. Mac loses, Sarah wins big-time was the gist of headlines.
"I feel a little sorry for John. He aimed low and missed."
"A woman in one of Palin’s crowds praised her for being “a mom like me … who thinks the way I do” and added, for ill measure, “That’s what I want in the White House.” Fine, but in what capacity?"
A column by someone I avoid (but didn't today), Bill O'Reilly condemns all the continued criticism of Sarah Palin, but I find these other columnists hitting my funny bone, while also pointing to the truth. Palin is striving to become a GOP power force.
*And I do not think feminists view Sarah Palin with amusement. I look at her in disbelief, disgust, and antipathy.
Sunday, November 16, 2008
Gay Marriage by Keith Olbermann
I found this over at Presbyterian Gal's and was moved to tears.
Whatever your opinion about gay marriage, watch/listen to this!
Also, Quaker Dave has copied an editorial by Leonard Pitts that is worth reading in connection with this issue. Go here.
Needlepoint Kneelers
Today 12 needlepoint kneelers were introduced and dedicated to First United Methodist Church of Corpus Christi, TX. They are beautiful; just one is pictured above. This is a project that has been ongoing for the past four years. Each stitcher who created the kneeler walked in a procession to the front of the sanctuary and placed the pillow in its particular spot.I went today because a good friend MW worked diligently on kneeler #4: God Called the Dry Land. Perhaps someday I can post a picture of "her" kneeler.
Nancy Keating of Atlanta, GA, designed them. Pictures of other kneelers she designed can be seen here. She was also in the congregation today!
It was thrilling to see the kneelers and their creators, as well as experience the joy of the congregation today. I'm glad I could be there, especially for my friend.
Still, I find that I missed the liturgy and Eucharist of my Episcopal Church. I yearn for that weekly worship experience.
Prayer Reminder
Saturday, November 15, 2008
Who would Jesus torture?

This says it all. It's from LesEnrages.org, and I do hope you'll go and read this piece posted on Nov. 12, 2008.
Please urge newly-elected President Obama to issue an executive order by endorsing the Declaration of Principles for a Presidential Executive Order to Ban Torture.
Also, spend some time looking at the website National Religious Campaign Against Torture.
Friday, November 14, 2008
Friday Five: Remembrance

Sophia posted today's Friday Five for the RevGalBlogPals blog:
Earlier this week the U.S. celebrated Veterans' Day, known in many other countries as Remembrance Day. At this time last year I was commuting to a postdoc in Canada, and I was moved by the many red poppies that showed up there on people's lapels in honor of the observance. Unlike a flag lapel pin, which to me has political connotations and implies approval of our current war, the poppies simply honor the sacrifice and dedication of those who have followed their consciences by serving--sometimes dying--in the military.
This week's Friday Five invites reflection on the theme of remembrance, which is also present in the feasts of All Saints, celebrated in many liturgical churches on November 1, and All Souls--known in Latin@ cultures as the Day of the Dead--celebrated in some the following day.
1. Did your church have any special celebrations for All Saints/All Soul's Day? I've thought about posting about my church's All Saints Day celebrations and am glad for this opportunity. I was surprisingly gifted with the holiness of the communion of saints that day.
Our interim priest arranged for an inter-generational event between the services that Sunday--making paper chains, with each loop bearing the name of a departed person we loved. When I arrived, mostly teenagers were noisily stapling the bands of paper together on which the office staff had printed those who had died since the church's foundation in 1950. I did not expect any feelings at all when I started to write out the names of my parents and then friends who died in the past. I was surprised at the feelings of love I felt as I wrote more and more names, including Joe and Len, friends who died in 2008.

Before the late service, the youth wrapped the long chain around the altar. This contributed to the feelings of connection, even though my mind scoffed at the idea. My heart knew!
The music was the homily for the day, with the choir singing the Te Deum. Before that, the priest solemnly read out each name of a member of All Saints Episcopal Church since its beginning. Though I knew very few of the people named, I was totally attentive and appreciative of each person. That still surprises me; I can only thank God for the gift of awareness I was given. I did not try--and know that during other years of services, I could be antsy during the long reading of names.
What a gift of remembrance I was given.
2. How about Veterans' Day?
Not much was done on this day, except me remembering my parents and praying for soldiers.
3. Did you and your family have a holiday for Veterans' Day/Remembrance Day? If so, how did you take advantage of the break?
No.
4. Is there a veteran in your life, living or dead, whose dedication you remember and celebrate? Or perhaps a loved one presently serving in the armed forces?
Both of my parents were Marines in WW II. In fact, they met in Hawaii at a dance on the base. I am proud of my mother volunteering to be a woman Marine at that time. I am proud of my father serving in the Marine Corps for 24 years; for rising from a private through the ranks to retire as a Major; for receiving the Silver Star and Purple Heart medals in the Korean War/Conflict.
(Even though I am for peace, I grew up on Marine bases and still have pride in the U.S. Marine Corps.)5. Do you have any personal rituals which help you remember and connect with loved ones who have passed on?
They are mostly "food" rituals! Until my mother died in 1992, she spent every Christmas with me. She struggled with leaving my dad for Christmas, but finally realized that he didn't care much about Christmas and did not mind her leaving WA for TX.
My mother always made wonderful cookies for Christmas, something I continue to do. She also made cinnamon rolls for Christmas morning, which both MJ and I have been doing since my mother's death. My mother would bring the pieces of a gingerbread house for the kids to put together and decorate every Christmas. That's one tradition I always want to do, but do not always plan enough to get it all together.
Thursday, November 13, 2008
American Pie (taxes) from "Christian Century"
| "In the course of discussing tax policy with an unlicensed Ohio plumber, Barack Obama suggested that "spreading the wealth around" a bit more would be good for the country. Obama was trying to explain why he wants to impose a modest tax increase on people who make more than $250,000 a year while reducing taxes on those making less than that amount. John McCain and his supporters immediately seized on Obama's remark as a sign that Obama favors a socialist form of income redistribution. "The notion that a progressive income tax is a form of socialism is ludicrous. Since the time of Teddy Roosevelt, Americans have recognized that those who are flourishing most in society should pay a proportionately higher share of tax. After all, they are the ones benefiting most from the social stability and infrastructure that government provides. Talk of socialism would be laughable except that it is part of a larger, disturbing reality in American politics: it has become almost impossible to talk about the disparities in wealth that have arisen over the past three decades and about how this stratification undermines democracy and fosters unequal outcomes in other areas of life, including educational opportunity and access to health care. "Since the late 1970s the share of national income going to the top 1 percent of Americans has doubled and the share for the top 0.1 percent has tripled. More than 40 percent of total income goes to the wealthiest 10 percent—their biggest share of the nation's pie in at least 65 years. The very wealthy have become enormously wealthy, while middle-class workers have seen their wages stagnate—barely keeping pace with inflation—and at the same time have had to deal with sharp increases in the costs of health care and education. "In light of this trend, the dispute between McCain and Obama on taxes is minor: Obama wants to return the top marginal tax rate to 39 percent, where it was under Clinton, while McCain wants to keep it at 35 percent. Both men, in other words, would maintain the mildly progressive tax system that currently exists. The current system is actually much less progressive than it was in earlier decades—under Eisenhower the top tax rate was 91 percent, and under Nixon it was 70 percent. Those were hardly socialist administrations. "Though tax rates are not the only factor shaping economic conditions, they are an important measure of how the burdens of common life are being distributed. The warnings about socialism should be seen for what they are: a blunt effort to block any discussion of the ominous fact that the U.S. has become a nation of increasing inequality and, for many, of declining opportunity." | |||
by the Century editors
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Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Harold Loukes
--Harold Loukes
This quote went along beautifully with the third chapter in Gerald May's book, The Awakened Heart--"Freedom and Intention." So I brought it to our Tuesday Wisdom Class for the opening meditation. I was surprised that the ensuing conversation was preoccupied with whether love could be measured, while I thought (and still think) that the whole point of this saying is that one is to love no matter if it is rejected or received, thwarted or rewarded, denied or affirmed. The point is to love with abandon, as God loves us, and not to stop when it appears that nothing happens. --Or to try to love as God loves us.
This made me wonder who Harold Loukes was; all I knew till now was that he was a Quaker. He was born in 1912 in England and died there in 1980. He was a headmaster for over a decade in India and continued to be involved with education on his return to Great Britain.
Meeting in Houston
Corpus Christi is where husband CB and I live. Daughter MJ is going to college in San Antonio. Son BJ lives and works in Houston. And now daughter AE from Seattle will be in Houston this weekend! Though AE does not like TX very much, we're glad she'll be down here for a few days. She will be attending a conference in Houston.Friday night we will meet for dinner, minus DC and wife AA who cannot come from Austin. Thanks to a friend telling me about Ziggy's, we have a restaurant that is recommended for "mixed families with both vegetarians and carnivores." That's us! And such a restaurant may lessen each child's strident desire for his/her own type of food, since both will be offered.

I am grateful that 19-year-old MJ will drive from San Antonio to Houston on Friday and then drive me back to Corpus Christi on Saturday. She'll have a lot of driving to do, with another trip from Corpus Christi to San Antonio on Sunday. This way she and I can stay longer in Houston on Saturday, because my husband must drive back to Corpus Christi early on Saturday morning, which is earlier than I want to leave.
Monday, November 10, 2008
Marine Corps Birthday
Today is the Marine Corps Birthday. When I was a little girl, my dad would take me to the Officers' Club to see the HUGE cake for the Marine Corps Birthday Ball. I was promised that when I was 16, I could go to that. . . .but by then my dad had retired from the Marine Corps. Since we lived far from a Marine base, no more Birthday Balls. I never got to go to one. I like remembering how beautiful my mother would look, dressed up for the balls, and my dad in his dress blues.
Sunday, November 9, 2008
Acedia
Today I am going to church and then will walk in the CROP Walk. Other than that, I am reading this book, so I will not be visiting blogs.
Here is a story of the desert fathers from the book:
". . . the early Christian monks staked their survival on their willingness to be as God had made them, creatures of the day-to-day. They regarded repetition as essential to their salvation, and valued perseverance in prayer and manual labor as the core of their spiritual discipline. . . .
"'Abba Moses asked Abba Sylvanus, "Can a man lay a new foundation every day?" The old man said, "If he works hard, he can lay a new foundation at every moment."'" (86)
Saturday, November 8, 2008
YES!
I took this from someone's blog who belongs to RevGals, but I forget where it came from, except that it is by Bill Keane! Thank you!
Friday, November 7, 2008
The Death of Those We Love
"The death of those we love and who love us opens up the possibility of a new, more radical communion, a new intimacy, a new belonging to each other. If love is stronger than death, then death has the potential to deepen and strengthen the bonds of love.
"It is only when we have died that our spirits can completely reveal themselves. The spirits of love, once freed from our mortal bodies, will blow where it will, even when few will hear its coming and going."
From Becoming the Beloved by Henri Nouwen











