For
MJ's birthday (
Monday is MJ's 18th Birthday!), I made a carrot cake
minus the cup of raisins and the cup of pecans. The cake was shorter than usual, but I assumed that that was because it was missing two cups of ingredients. I iced it with cream cheese frosting, and it looked lovely. After dinner out with
MJ and four of her friends, we came home to have birthday cake. She blew out 18 candles and then cut the cake. To me, it looked odd. It tasted dense and clay-like, with wonderful frosting. One girl said she was "too full" to eat it--how polite of her! I ended up throwing the cake away.
This was a humbling experience, because I am known to be an excellent baker and obviously on Monday night
I wasn't. (In fact, just today
AE emailed me for my pecan pie recipe.)
MJ was gracious, and I felt very apologetic and also a little disappointed that her friends thought I cooked this badly!
Yesterday morning I went to the hospital waiting room to sit with the wife of an elderly man who was getting his hip replaced. Trying to be cheerful and talkative, I told Mrs. J about the mishap with the carrot cake. And she told me how carrot cake is Dr. J's
favorite cake! If I hadn't told her that story, I would not have learned about him liking carrot cake so much. This turned my feelings of regret into anticipation, because I'm going to bake Dr. J a carrot cake when he comes home from the hospital! (Dr. J is a dear man who is a regular member of our weekly Wisdom Class book study.)
In fact, this weekend I was going to bake another carrot cake for our children coming to visit.
AE and
KA (
AE and KA are engaged!) are flying to Texas from Seattle to attend a friend's wedding, and so DC and AA (
Happy Anniversary, D and A!) are coming here from Austin.
BJ will not be here, because he has to go to Louisiana for a week of safety training. But he'll be here in spirit, because we'll be taking care of his springer spaniel puppy Troy! (or as husband CB says, "our grandpuppy.")
When I bake the carrot cake for family, I can easily make a little for Dr. and Mrs. J. I am so happy thinking of all this, which makes the disappointing birthday a funny memory that is connected to this sweet one. I am grateful for that sad carrot cake.
"And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him" (Rom. 8:28a)