Saturday, August 29, 2009

Today is all that matters.

Thanks to Jennifer at An Orientation of Heart, I got another new book about health. And it reminds me of something a therapist told me 14 years ago, "CHOOSE HEALTH." That's what this book is gently pointing to: Fit from Within by Victoria Moran.

What I am hoping is that I will start living with only THREE meals a day. That cuts out a lot of snacking. With Infinity Squared and Jennifer leaving comments about it being healthier to have two snacks a day, I am planning to do that. Plus, that makes a healthier diet more livable!

Moran stresses staying here right now. Here are some quotes:

"It's dangerous to get caught up in 'When I get thin. . . ,' 'When I get this thing licked. . . ,' and other states of future glory. This is the day you've got. No matter how praiseworthy your eating and exercise are today, your weight isn't going to be very different when you go to bed tonight from when you got up this morning. The tiny changes will add up, but don't concern yourself too much with them. Just stay in today." (42)

"Today is it, and what you do today is all that matters. Staying centered in the now keeps you aware of what you're doing. You're far less likely to eat absentmindedly when you're firmly rooted in this day, this meal, this project, this conversation. When you stay focused, you fully experience the day--its events, its sensations, its nuances. Life will become richer and more gratifying. You'll have fewer regrets, because regrets belong to the past. You'll worry less, because worry is about the future, and when the future becomes the present it won't be nearly as frightening. The present almost never is." (42)

5 comments:

Anne said...

it's actually healthier to eat three slightly smaller meals and two snacks a day than to just eat three meals a day.

Jennifer said...

I want to echo IS's thought-- i eat three smaller meals and two snacks daily. I think it helps regulate one's blood sugar and keep one's metabolism stoked.

I'm happy for you and will be cheering from over (up) here....

Jan said...

Thank you to both dear IS and Jennifer. Limiting myself to two snacks should help me a lot.

Ruth Hull Chatlien said...

That does sound like a healthy perspective (staying in the today).

Magdalene6127 said...

This was wonderful, and also very much in line with 12-step wisdom: just for today, one day at a time. Thanks for posting it!