Growing? Growing!

At the Oblate Institute, which was Monday through Wednesday, I met a woman who is a pediatrician and has her last child at home, who is my daughter MJ's age--who will be a senior and gone to college in a year. This person rents a hermitage at Lebh Shomea, something I never imagined a lay person doing! She plans to live there for long periods after her daughter graduates from high school. But what drew me most was her description of her prayer life in the past year. She gets up at 3 am to pray and prays and prays. This I learned--when I asked if she could maintain the 4-5 hours of daily prayer they urge of residents at Lebh Shomea--and she said she could and wants to sit with God more and more.

How I want that. I yearn for God, but can't sit more than 30-60 minutes, depending upon the day and time. I yearn to be in prayer like that. When I'm not praying, I'm yearning for that. (Now I would tell someone I was spiritually directing, that that is also prayer--but do I think that for myself??) In my little way, maybe I'm moving there.

She struck me so much that I approached Fr. Kelly when he was getting a dish of melon at the salad bar at lunch. I told him about meeting this woman, whom he directs, and how I wanted to be like her in prayer. I told him I wanted God to grow me into prayer like this and how will it happen!! Fr. Kelly smiled at me, and said reassuringly, "You are growing now; you are growing."

Thank you. Live in the moment. Don't anticipate. Don't get spiritually greedy. Trust God. All will be well.

Blogging

I am excited by the various people who have left comments, especially Nancy and Judy from yesterday. Thank you, friends. I am amazed at how blogging keeps one connected with others, plus helping one to be communicating with new friends.

I am surprised/amazed that I could put a picture here--somehow, some way. It was taken on Easter when I was 5 in Lynden, WA, when my dad was overseas in Japan. We were living in a little house behind my mother's parents' bigger house. It was next to the Nooksack River. Only my mother, my little black cocker spaniel Inky, and I lived there for a year.

My grandpa was a stern, quiet man who smoked a pipe and had a red cocker spaniel named Rusty. (He had several different Rusty's in his lifetime). My nana was sedentary with an ulcerated leg, and I don't remember much about her. I know my grandpa had been an Anglican in England before he moved to Canada and then the US, but no longer attended church. My nana was a practicing Christian Scientist. They met in Saskatchewan, Canada, where my mother was born in 1919. They moved to Lynden, Washington (or the USA) when my mother was seven years old and her older sister, Janet, was 14.

During the depression my grandfather would travel along the border, back and forth, seeking work as a carpenter. When he reached Lynden, he put on a roof for someone, who refused to pay him. He stayed until he was paid, which is why the family followed him to live in Lynden! I never heard if he actually was paid, but it must have taken a long while, if he was.

5 Things about Jesus

Looking at Serena's blog, I decided to be tagged about writing 5 things about Jesus, though I don't know whom to tag or anything else, even though the directions say to tag 5 others! Maybe someone will do that from here. . . . say so in your comment!

1. One with God
2. Cosmic Christ (Piere Teilhard de Chardin)*
3. True self/authentic
4. Compassion
5. Humility/dependence upon the Father

This may show my confusion or knowledge (or both) about Jesus. After being at this conference in San Antonio and hearing Fr. Kelly Nemeck (co-founder of Lebh Shomea www.lebhshomea.org) explain a little bit about his years of study, meditation, and prayer about Piere Teilhard de Chardin* and hearing the cosmology of Dr. Brian Swimme, I am awed by God/Christ as Universe.
I have so much to learn and so much to try to understand. I came home to my chemist husband, who already knew these facts about the expanding universe I just learned about. I've never thought of myself as "scientific," even though my two daughters have been interested in chemistry, like their dad.

At OST 2007 Summer Institute

I'm sitting in the Oblate's school library, just like I so often did when attending classes here in the past seven years. I am grateful that I came to this summer institute held here, which is entitled "Preserving the Integrity of Creation: Eco-Spirituality and Eco-ethics." The keynote speaker is Dr. Brian Swimme http://www.brianswimme.org/ whose website title is "The New Cosmology."

Last night he gave an amazing talk, with pictures included of aspects of the universe, which may appear on his website, that brought forth a little understanding about quantum physics, but a greater feeling of awe and wonder at the ever-expanding universe. Creation continues within and without! Brian started off by talking about the change of human consciousness and that we are in the middle of it--what synchronicity, since I've been reading books by Ken Wilber (Up From Eden, especially) and Beatrice Bruteau (The Grand Option) in which they postulate the evolving universe and humanity with the next leap of consciousness imminent--and that this can only be accomplished through greater awareness of the Divine, so both urge people to meditate/pray daily. It is so comforting to me, as I look at the dreadful ways humans are treating each other and the earth, to be shown hope that God is continuing to grow all of creation, which we are an infinitesimal part--but still a part. Minds are becoming aware of the Unity of All and urging us to SEE.

Two more talks by Dr. Swimme this afternoon and tonight. If I'm as overwhelmed as I was last night, sometimes even with tears, who knows when I'll be able to write about any of it??

Tibet

Rent and watch the dvd "Tibet--Cry of the Snow Lion"! I watched it yesterday and cannot stop thinking about it. Here's the plot synopsis according to amazon:

"Ten years in the making, this feature-length documentary was filmed during a remarkable nine journeys throughout Tibet, India and Nepal. CRY OF THE SNOW LION brings audiences to the long-forbidden "rooftop of the world" with an unprecedented richness of imagery... from rarely-seen rituals in remote monasteries, to horse races with Khamba warriors; from brothels and slums in the holy city of Lhasa, to magnificent Himalayan peaks still traveled by nomadic yak caravans. The dark secrets of Tibet's recent past are powerfully chronicled through riveting personal stories and interviews, and a collection of undercover and archival images never before assembled in one documentary. A definitive exploration of a legendary subject, TIBET: CRY OF THE SNOW LION is an epic story of courage and compassion."

However, the synopsis does not mention the oppression and torture of the Tibetans by the Chinese. That continues on today as the Chinese try to obliterate the Tibetan culture and peoples.

Can't Sleep

It's been Father's Day. I don't have a father anymore or a mother. Oldest son DC came from Austin with his wife AA to visit for Father's Day. They even showed up at the Habitat House groundbreaking/blessing for the next house being built by the Methodist Church! That surprised and pleased us, as their dad is working there three days a week and has organized the volunteers from FUMC. It's always nice to have DC and AA around, because they are bubbley, talkative, and fun together. (DC teases and AA bubbles!)

I'm going to San Antonio tomorrow for the next three days to attend the Oblate Summer Institute at the Oblate School of Theology. A friend is driving with me, and we are going to go to the classes offered. Brian Swimme is the main speaker, and this is said about him:
For mathematical cosmologist Brian Swimme, the universe is a continuous, radiant, numinous revelation. Contemplating the wonders of the unfolding creativity of the cosmos is a mystical, ecstatic, awe-inspiring event.
Workshops will be held conducted by such excellent people as Fr. Ronald Rolheiser (who is now the President of OST), Fr. Kelly Nemeck of Lebh Shomea, and Sr. Sarah Sharkey, my favorite professor at OST.
This event will go on for three days, and I will be there. It will be nice to be back in the OST school grounds again--AND they'll let me use the computers in the library!

The Invitation

In this morning's homily, Fr. David included a reading of "The Invitation" by Oriah Mountain Climber. It was so beautiful that I had to find it on google:

The Invitation

It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living.
I want to know what you ache for
and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing.

It doesn’t interest me how old you are.
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool
for love
for your dream
for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn’t interest me what planets are squaring your moon...
I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow
if you have been opened by life’s betrayals
or have become shrivelled and closed
from fear of further pain.

I want to know if you can sit with pain
mine or your own
without moving to hide it
or fade it
or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy
mine or your own
if you can dance with wildness
and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes
without cautioning us
to be careful
to be realistic
to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn’t interest me if the story you are telling me
is true.
I want to know if you can
disappoint another
to be true to yourself.
If you can bear the accusation of betrayal
and not betray your own soul.
If you can be faithless
and therefore trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see Beauty
even when it is not pretty
every day.
And if you can source your own life
from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure
yours and mine
and still stand at the edge of the lake
and shout to the silver of the full moon,
“Yes.”

It doesn’t interest me
to know where you live or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up
after the night of grief and despair
weary and bruised to the bone
and do what needs to be done
to feed the children.

It doesn’t interest me who you know
or how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand
in the centre of the fire
with me
and not shrink back.

It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom
you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you
from the inside
when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone
with yourself
and if you truly like the company you keep
in the empty moments.

© Mountaindreaming, from the book The Invitation published by HarperSanFrancisco, 1999

On my bulletin board

On my bulletin board are these quotes:

In the way of God,
thoughts count very little.

Love does it all.
~Brother Lawrence

THE REAL WORK

It may be that when we no longer know what to do
we have come to our real work.

and that when we no longer know which way to go
we have come to our real journey.

The mind that is not baffled is not employed.

The impeded stream is the one that sings.
~Wendell Berry

Our faith and our friendships
are not shattered by one big act,
but by many small neglects.
~J. Gustav White

Like the wind searching,
lifting feathers round
the sparrow's neck,
lifting leaves in a wave
across the bean field,
I find no place
where I can say,
here my being ends.
~Colin Oliver

Sustain in me a willing spirit.
~Psalm 51:12

Absence of God

God is always present, or so they say. I believe that, despite the absence I usually feel. Ever since Father Makothokat said in a class entitled "God as Trinity" at Oblate School of Theology (OST), I take solace in the thought that the feeling of emptiness is a sign of God's presence. Anytime I become aware of "no God", that is the Divine Spirit touching me. (Fr. M. based this on Karl Rahner's volumnous writings.) God always acts first, and we respond. So in my wondering about where God is or even if God exists, there the Holy One is.

It reminds me of Kierkegaard's wonderful prayer:

You have loved us first, O God, alas! We speak of it in terms of history as if You have only loved us first but a single time, rather than that without ceasing You have loved us first many things and every day and our whole life through. When we wake up in the morning and turn our soul toward You - You are the first - You have loved us first; if I rise at dawn and at the same second turn my soul toward You in prayer, You are there ahead of me, You have loved me first. When I withdraw from the distractions of the day and turn my soul toward You, You are the first and thus forever. And yet we always speak ungratefully as if You have loved us first only once.

And this brings me back to the impact La Leche League (see two posts below) had on my life, which I now attribute to God's lavish love. I was not seeking the Holy, but I can see now how the Divine brought me the help, support, encouragement, and friendship I needed as a new mother. Learning to wholeheartedly give myself to my babies was a gift for someone like me who was so often seeking "the rules" to live by. God seeks the good in every situation, and so I was guided to look for that, too. I found community in La Leche League. I also found my dear, dear friend LT, whose three children are about the same ages of my first three--plus, she was MJ's 4 year old teacher and first grade teacher, besides seeing MJ after her birth even before the pediatrician.

When I see love in action, as LLL helped me to live, I choose to see God's presence. If I perceive the Holy when I don't feel anything AND when I feel or see love, that means that God is always present.

La Leche League

Katherine asked what La Leche League is, and since LLL had such a profound affect on my life, especially as a mother, I want to write a little about it. Basically, La Leche League is a mother-to-mother support group that meets monthly to encourage breastfeeding and loving guidance for discipline (more like, gently promoting natural consequences). Another draw for me was the group library, which contained informative and helpful books about pregnancy, childbirth, infant nutrition and care, breastfeeding, etc.

I started attending meetings when I was pregnant with my first child DC and kept going until my youngest child MJ was in kindergarten (1979-1994). I became a leader the year AE was born (1982). You always bring your baby/toddler/child(ren) with you to meetings, so the children play while the mothers talk and help each other. Through LLL, I learned how to parent, how a baby isn't spoiled by being held, and that breastfeeding is best when done on demand (or the desire of the baby, unless he/she sleeps too much). Without any family nearby (all in Washington), I needed the help and encouragement I received from other moms at LLL, wherever we moved. I also made lifetime friends through LLL.

The LLLI website is http://www.lalecheleague.org/
You can find out how seven mothers in the 1950's started meeting for support, because breastfeeding in the USA was down to 20% and they could find little or no support from doctors, family, or friends. The mission statement of the organization is:

Our Mission is to help mothers worldwide to breastfeed through mother-to-mother support, encouragement, information, and education, and to promote a better understanding of breastfeeding as an important element in the healthy development of the baby and mother.

(From LLLI Policies and Standing Rules Notebook, May 89; rev Apr 93)

8 Random Facts

Katherine (www.meaningandauthenticity.blogspot.com) tagged me for this "8 Random Facts" list, but I don't know anyone else who blogs! So this is probably stopping at this point with me, and luckily Katherine tagged someone else besides me.

1. I'm an only child, the daughter of an only child, and I'm the mother of four children.
(Children: oldest son DC, oldest daughter AE, middle son BJ, youngest daughter MJ)

2. I've had six cocker spaniels in my life. The current one is a sweet blonde cocker named Baillie. When AE was an angry 14 year old adolescent, who would lock herself in her bedroom, she unexpectedly gave me a blond cocker spaniel puppy. She invited me into her room, and there was this darling, little puppy AE had bought for me on her bed.

3. I have a very low voice and am told by my husband that I cannot keep a tune. (He periodically tells me this while we're singing at church.) I remember being in 5th grade and singing on the phone with my best girl friend singing on the other end.

4. I like to write letters and send cards to people. I also think it is important to write thank you notes. While the children were at home, every Christmas I would make a check-off list for all the notes to be written, including their dad and me. The list stayed up on the refrigerator until all the notes were written.

5. I have been an elementary school teacher in Washington State, Oregon, Virginia, and Texas. I liked teaching 2nd grade best, although teaching 2 year olds was a lot of fun in the 1990's. When C. was in grad school at Oregon State University, I taught at Eddyville, which was a spot on the road to the coast and only had a school, a church, and a post office in a trailer. There were 250 kids in K-12.

6. I was a La Leche League leader for 12 years.

7. I hang clothes on the clothesline and have done so ever since we moved to Texas in 1978. I hang everything except permanent press items outside. (Though since C. retired in 2002, there are few such types of clothes to wash anymore.) I love to hang clothes out on the line!

8. I own my parents' house in Bellingham, Washington, which we have rented since my father died in 1993. After MJ finishes high school next year (2008), we have to decide if we want to move back there. So many friends live in TX, plus in the next few years DC and his wife may have children. . . . In an ideal world, we'd summer there and winter here, but that's pretty expensive, and we'd have to sell one of the houses. . . . So I own a house in Bellingham.

Let me know if someone wants to be tagged to do this!

My Dualistic Thinking

In our weekly lectio group today, we meditated upon the Gospel scripture from this week's lectionary: Luke 7:36-8:3. This is the story of the woman annointing Jesus' feet with oil and her tears and kisses at a dinner given by Simon, a pharisee.

7:44 Then turning toward the woman, he said to Simon, "Do you see this woman? I entered your house; you gave me no water for my feet, but she has bathed my feet with her tears and dried them with her hair.

7:45 You gave me no kiss, but from the time I came in she has not stopped kissing my feet.

7:46 You did not anoint my head with oil, but she has anointed my feet with ointment.

7:47 Therefore, I tell you, her sins, which were many, have been forgiven; hence she has shown great love. But the one to whom little is forgiven, loves little."

I was oddly struck by the word "not" in two instances, where they meant opposites in a way. "She has not stopped kissing" and "you did not anoint my head"--The first indicates that the woman kept kissing, and the second shows what Simon did not do. Of course, two negatives make a positive, but I am still more aware of my tendency to view things as positive or negative, good or bad, and right or wrong. The word "not" was really both positive and negative in those cases.

It reminds me of taking an ethics class from Maria Cimperman at Oblate School of Theology. I still remember being surprised that "habits" were not only "bad habits"--that we can have good habits, also. (Probably because I'm always too aware of my bad habits. . . .)

This shows my tendency to label/judge things in a dualistic manner, instead of accepting them as they are. Too often I label myself and/or my actions this way, instead of accepting myself as I am right at this moment. Gloria tells the story of her husband, Rev. Dick Lear, who said that when we die and enter Heaven, God will ask each of us, "Why weren't you yourself?" and for me, "Why weren't you Jan Hilton?"

The human tendency to think dualistically is why acceptance is so important in that 12-Step aphorism awareness, acceptance, action. No one can turn towards God in action until we accept what we've done objectively--and that takes awhile to see it neither as "good" or "bad," because when we're occupied on judging ourselves, we are not looking at God at all. In judging oneself, one is engaged in idolatry and placing oneself as judge above God.

I must accept things as they are and as I am before I can repent and see God right then at that moment. I must give up my supposed control and accept God's acceptance, love, and forgiveness as REALITY.

Poetry Chaikhana

If you like inspirational and/or mystical poetry, you will like Poetry Chaikhana (http://www.poetry-chaikhana.com/). The site master is a poet, who also lives in my hometown of Bellingham, Washington. He chooses a beautiful poem each day, and always includes his own reflections on that piece. I am blessed to receive this in my inbox everyday. You, too, can subscribe by going to the website. It is free, but donations are helpful.

Today webmaster Ivan displayed a poem by Mary Oliver--"Have You Ever Tried to Enter the Long Black Branches?" It is beautiful and addresses one taking the risk to be vulnerable or "to die". Here is a short excerpt:

Well, there is time left --
fields everywhere invite you into them.

And who will care, who will chide you if you wander away
from wherever you are, to look for your soul?

Quickly, then, get up, put on your coat, leave your desk!

To put one's foot into the door of the grass, which is
the mystery, which is death as well as life, and
not be afraid!

To set one's foot in the door of death, and be overcome
with amazement!

from West Wind: Poems and Prose Poems, by Mary Oliver

Avoidance

Although a friend and I committed together to work on projects we've both been avoiding, I still have not done anything. I have seen myself looking at the options of writing/researching and something else like reading and choosing to do the more attractive and indulgent activity, which usually is reading (what I want to). Now I am seeing this friend for lunch on Monday, which is a regular weekly event, so I either work tonight or tomorrow morning! I know it's a surrendering, because once I start, I'll have to keep going. . . .

Another avoidance occurred with someone before church today. I sensed he was going to ignore me, so I ignored him--and then he hugged me! I still pretended I wanted to talk to the person right behind him. I know this is a habitual behavior from my childhood--not to seem needy, not to "bother" the person. This is avoiding the risk of being rejected, but it ends up I diminish my connections with others through my perceptions of their future rejection, which may or may not occur. I'm damning them and myself before anything happens! This is definitely NOT living in the present moment. The good thing about this is I realized the feelings that I acted upon minutes later, so as Fr. David would say, my "teacher" appeared. Thank you, Lord.

Someone once told me that Jesus on the cross shows us how to interact--by spreading our arms open to welcome the other. Such vulnerability is what I desire, but am afraid of. From years of attending Al-Anon meetings, I remember the aphorism--awareness, acceptance, action. (I always think this describes repentance--turning back to God.) Today I've been given awareness, and I think I am beginning to accept that this is a pattern within me, so perhaps the Holy Spirit will help me to act in a different way when I can be aware of those feelings, before I react without thinking. I want to show God's love, but that isn't possible when I am hiding myself from others.

Fr. David preached today about the Widow of Nain, pointing out that the people called the young man raised and speaking "the prophet"! He'd seen the abundance of life beyond death and so had much to say. We are to be prophets each one of us. That's possible if I'm not avoiding people or things. Living into the fullness of myself, wide open arms to welcome the possibility for life, not death, as I fear. Take a risk! Right now, at this moment, God is here loving me, you, all. Let's open our arms, or at least our eyes!

Give me your hand

God speaks to each of us as he makes us,
then walks with us silently out of the night.

These are words we dimly hear:

You, sent out beyond your recall,
go to the limits of your longing.
Embody me.

Flare up like flame
and make big shadows I can move in.

Let everything happen to you: beauty and terror.
Just keep going. No feeling is final.
Don't let yourself lose me.

Nearby is the country they call life.
You will know it by its seriousness.

Give me your hand.

~ Rainer Maria Rilke ~

(Rilke’s Book of Hours: Love Poems to God, translated by Anita Barrows and Joanna Macy)

Quiet House

Everyone is asleep, except me. I have an office across from the main bathroom, which is where our big fluffy cat sleeps every night. We have to shut the door, so she won't come and scratch on various bedroom doors as we are sleeping. Usually when she hears me up, she pounds on the bathroom door to be let out. No noise, so Gracie must be sleeping.

It also seems very quiet these days because my youngest daughter, 17 year old MJ is away on work crew at Laity Lodge Youth Camp in Leakey, TX. She left last Friday, and I miss her. This is giving me a taste of an "empty nest." I cannot call or email her, which I'll be able to do when she goes away to college. So this adjustment to her being gone is much more extreme than it will be when she goes off to college, except that this will END in one month.

When I worried that she would be unduly influenced by the many fundamentalists at Laity Lodge, MJ reassured me that she did not believe that Jesus is the only way to God. I'm glad she can believe that God is greater than Christianity or any other religion. We try to box God in, but that is impossible. God's loving creation continues to expand and include us all as we are invited to join in the way God is connecting us to life and everything in life, including people who look different or think differently. Please open our hearts so we can see YOU in each person and so will love you in them. As I used to hear on an AA tape, "Let the God in me reach out to the God in you. . . ."

In the way of God,

thoughts count very little.

Love does it all.

by Brother Lawrence

Depression

Since my talk at All Saints, I've been thinking about depression and how that plagues so many people. I remember telling a friend after I returned from treatment that I was feeling depressed, and she told me that I seemed okay to her. I still remember this incident because she did not understand or try to understand me. Too often we do not see beyond the exterior smiles of someone to know how they really are. When we ask how someone is, do we really want to know?

That reminds me of the people in Zambia, who would shake each person's hand and ask, "How are you?" AND wait for the reply--in rapt attention. (I was in Zambia one year ago, perhaps having someone do just that.) Who do we give our whole attention to?

Here's a poem by Hafiz about depression:

I know the voice of depression
Still calls to you.

I know those habits that can ruin your life
Still send their invitations.

But you are with the Friend now
And look so much stronger.

You can stay that way
And even bloom!

Praying in Bible School

Just got back from a windy and humid walk with my Sunday walking friend. Corpus Christi is always saved by its wind, but the stickiness still assualts you!

Katherine told me about using Cokesbury materials on prayer for this week's Bible School at her small church. She told me about stations for making prayers, talking about prayer, ideas for prayer, and so many good activities. It may be chaos at times, but God will be working AND the kids will be hearing about prayer and will pray!

I have recently become newly aware of no one showing me or talking to me about how to pray as I grew up . Not only as I was growing up, but as a young adult. I never thought about it until that Methodist minister in NJ (in 1992) told me to pray until I believed, just like John Wesley was told to preach until he believed. That instruction brought me to awareness of God being with me--by praying, even when I didn't know the point!

I am so glad that there are instructional materials about prayer for children. I'm grateful that they'll at least hear about prayer They'll see it done and know that prayer is something to do! They'll experience it. Seeds will be planted, whether it looks like it or not, within the children.

God's in control

While writing my talk for the All Saints Episcopal Church women's luncheon, I kept seeing that I didn't see God, but God was in charge! One example was prayer, and how God brings forth praxis, while things I try to control often don't happen.

I had to leave for the church at 11 today, so I had lots of time to refine and revise my talk. After hanging clothes out on the clothesline, I set the timer for 45 minutes at 9:15 to sit with God. The phone rang with someone asking my 17 year old daughter MJ to be on the express soccer team, which will excite her very much. (Though she's away at a camp in the hill country of Texas, near Leakey, so she won't hear about it for awhile. Her cell phone doesn't work in the canyon there.) It was 10:30, and I hadn't pushed "start" on the timer of the microwave! I'd prayed/meditated/centered (whatever) for over an hour! What a surprise.

I kept chuckling afterwards, because God arranged for me to NOT obsess about what I was going to say! I had to surrender and let go, even about time. Thank you.

The talk went well. Someone told me I was "authentic" and a dear, older woman told me I should become a priest! Several people shared about their own experiences with depression and/or suicide. I feel much more connected. And my friend Margie came, too, even though she belongs to a different church. I am blessed by people I so foolishly think don't care! (That's the trap of self-idolatry I periodically fall into, but somewhat less often these days.)

God is All

As I write the talk I am giving to the women of All Saints tomorrow at their luncheon, I am newly aware of God as ALL--all time is in God. Even when I am unaware for years, as I was in my younger years, God was, is, and always will be.
I have become aware of God's continued openings to me throughout my life. I still don't realize them all and probably never will, but I am beginning to see a few. How could I not know that God was drawing me in when I asked to be baptized and confirmed in St. Paul's Episcopal Church in Bellingham, WA when I was in 11th grade? No one else suggested or invited me to. My parents didn't care one way or the other about "religion." God cared.

For a long time I confused God and "church" and "Christianity", which I think my children probably still do, except maybe Margaret. Humans created church and each religion as pointers to the Holy, but eventually all these seem to elevate themselves to autocratic idolatry. I've done this, too. God is ALL--the Holy One who loves. As I read in Beverly Ann's column for All Saints Episcopal Church (http://allsaintscorpuschristi.org/)--
"What I find important, as well as ministering, is that God, in whatever Form or Person, loves me through all Eternity. . . Our love for everything in the Earth replicates that love God has for us. Because God loves us, we can love, Meister Eckhart went even further, saying that he didn't thank God for loving him, 'because God's very nature requires that God love.' I believe our very nature requires that we love."