Saturday, May 31, 2008

1 Year Blogging!

Not only can I not believe that it's been ONE YEAR since I started blogging, but I find it hard to believe that I am remembering to announce this in the midst of all the preparations for my kids coming home--though they won't be here for a few more hours.

I never knew I would encounter such friendship, support, and even challenge in the blogging world. Thank you to all of you!

Friday, May 30, 2008

Cars and Planes!

My children are traveling by cars and planes to get home to see MJ graduate on Sunday. AE and KA flew from Seattle to Austin this evening and have safely arrived in (HOT) Texas. Big brother DC will drive them with his wife tomorrow to Corpus Christi. And coming from the northeast will be brother BJ driving from Houston. They will probably all arrive around noon-- or so I hope.

I am very excited and grateful that they'll be here tomorrow. It reminds me of Dust Bunny's post about her four children being home. Like her, I'll feel like "all my duckies are in a row." I will be one happy mom!

Thursday, May 29, 2008

Graduation weekend coming up!

Today was MJ's last day of high school. She and I went out to lunch, which was very nice! Before that I went to the only supermarket in Corpus Christi, HEB, to shop for all the food festivities for this weekend. Somehow celebrations and food go together, so once everyone is gone I'll go on a healthier diet!

I make a wonderful carrot cake, which seems to be destined to be the dessert for MJ's graduation. She was shocked that her boy friend CS had never had carrot cake, and so I am baking one for his family's graduation party tomorrow night. Then daughter AE said her partner KA had never had my carrot cake so that's the dessert for our family dinner on Saturday night!

Here's a picture of the valedictorian (CS) and salutatorian (MJ):
Ray High School


Valedictorian


Salutatorian
Yay!

AE and KA are flying from Seattle to Austin tomorrow. They'll stay with DC and wife AA, who will then drive them to Corpus Christi on Saturday. BJ will get here from Houston, too! All our children will be home for about 36 hours! They're all leaving on Sunday afternoon after the graduation ceremony--even MJ who will go off to be a camp counselor then, too.

We're barbecuing on Saturday night, and also will be serving two vegetarian salads, followed by carrot cake! That'll be our one evening with every one home until Christmas. Then on Sunday we're having a brunch before MJ leaves for the graduation at noon.

Graduation is at 1 pm on Sunday, June 1st. We get to sit in the second row! (CS's family sits in the first row.)

And here's a picture to show you how much my kids have grown. AE always tried to get out of pictures being taken, so she's not in this one on BJ's 10th birthday. The crazy one is DC, who was 16, and MJ was 5.


This was 13 years ago.
Time flies!


Wednesday, May 28, 2008

Unless . . . .


Unless you find paradise
at your own center,
there is not the smallest chance
that you may enter.

~~Angelus Silesius


Tuesday, May 27, 2008

War Immemorial Day

by Bill Quigley


"Memorial Day is not actually a day to pray for US troops who died in action, but rather a day set aside by Congress to pray for peace. The 1950 Joint Resolution of Congress, which created Memorial Day, says, "Requesting the President to issue a proclamation designating May 30, Memorial Day, as a day for a Nation-wide prayer for peace." (64 Stat.158).

"Peace today is a nearly impossible challenge for the United States. The US is far and away the most militarized country in the world and the most aggressive. Unless the US dramatically reduces its emphasis on global military action, there will be many, many more families grieving on future Memorial Days.

"The US spends over $600 billion annually on our military, more than the rest of the world combined. China, our nearest competitor, spends about one-tenth of what we spend. The US also sells more weapons to other countries than any other nation in the world."


Read the rest of the article here.

Everything

“Though the human body is born complete in one moment, the birth of the human heart is an ongoing process. It is being birthed in every experience of your life. Everything that happens to you has the potential to deepen you. It brings to birth within you new territories of the heart. Patrick Kavanagh captures this sense of the benediction of happening:


'Praise, praise, praise

The way it happened and the way it is.'"

O’Donohue, John. Anam Cara: A Book of Celtic Wisdom. New York: HarperCollins Publishers, 1998. 6.

Monday, May 26, 2008

May 27

May 27 is the 39th anniversary of CB and my first "real" date. This is the date we always observe, even though we dated three times in the fall of our freshman year in college. We found each other uninteresting that first dating period.

What brought us together is a poem I left on the windshield of his car. That same evening he called me up and invited me to sit with him in the "music room" at the college. After that, we dated often and even studied together. And 2 1/2 years later we were married.

At the time, this was my favorite poem. Here it is:

People
No people are uninteresting.
Their fate is like the chronicle of planets.
Nothing in them is not particular,
and planet is dissimilar from planet.
And if a man lived in obscurity
making his friends in that obscurity
obscurity is not uninteresting.
To each his world is private,
and in that world one excellent minute.
And in that world one tragic minute.
These are private.
In any man who dies there dies with him
his first snow and kiss and fight.
It goes with him.
There are left books and bridges
and painted canvas and machinery.
Whose fate is to survive.
But what has gone is also not nothing:
by the rule of the game something has gone.
Not people die but worlds die in them.
     -- Yevgeny Yevtushenko

Doggie surgery

Our old blonde cocker spaniel Baillie had surgery on Thursday for stones in her bladder that were causing her to be incontinent and listless. There were four, about the size of Hershey Kisses, or maybe a penny.
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She is recovering well and, at times, is even peppy again. Baillie is taking her medicine willingly with it hidden in a glob of peanut butter! (and Cisco gets a taste of peanut butter at the same time)

I'm glad she'll be feeling better for the coming graduation weekend when the two grand-puppies will be arriving with her older brothers.

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And this reminds me of Shel Silverstein's poem about the peanut butter sandwich:

Peanut-Butter Sandwich

    by Shel Silverstein (1932-1999)

I’ll sing you a story of a silly young king
Who played with the world at the end of a string,
But he only loved one single thing --
And that was just a peanut-butter sandwich.

His scepter and his royal gowns,
His regal throne and golden crowns
Were brown and sticky from the mounds
And drippings from each peanut-butter sandwich.

His subjects all were silly fools
For he had passed a royal rule
That all that they could learn in school
Was how to make a peanut-butter sandwich.

He would not eat his sovereign steak,
He scorned his soup and kingly cake,
And told his courtly cook to bake
An extra-sticky peanut-butter sandwich.

And then one day he took a bite
And started chewing with delight,
But found his mouth was stuck quite tight
From that last bite of peanut-butter sandwich.

His brother pulled, his sister pried,
The wizard pushed, his mother cried,
“My boy’s committed suicide
From eating his last peanut-butter sandwich!”

The dentist came, and the royal doc.
The royal plumber banged and knocked,
But still those jaws stayed tightly locked.
Oh darn that sticky peanut-butter sandwich!

The carpenter, he tried with pliers,
The telephone man tried with wires,
The firemen, they tried with fire,
But couldn’t melt that peanut-butter sandwich.

With ropes and pulleys, drills and coil,
With steam and lubricating oil --
For twenty years of tears and toil --
They fought that awful peanut-butter sandwich.

Then all his royal subjects came.
They hooked his jaws with grapplin’ chains
And pulled both ways with might and main
Against that stubborn peanut-butter sandwich.

Each man and woman, girl and boy
Put down their ploughs and pots and toys
And pulled until kerack! Oh, joy --
They broke right through that peanut-butter sandwich.

A puff of dust, a screech, a squeak --
The king’s jaw opened with a creak.
And then in voice so faint and weak --
The first words that they heard him speak
Were, “How about a peanut-butter sandwich?”

Sunday, May 25, 2008

Thoughts


"Listen less to your own thoughts
and more to God's thoughts."


-- François Fénelon

Friday, May 23, 2008

No key

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Looking everywhere
The key or keys are not here
A bird cries outside

Thursday, May 22, 2008

Thursday in South Texas

It was 90 degrees F. today and is supposed to be even warmer tomorrow. This means our HOT weather is here until October or so.

I had posted a silly picture of a child pinned on a clothesline from an email someone sent me, but it only showed up for me on my blog, so I've deleted it. I don't know why it would appear for me and no one else, but my daughter pointed out to me that some photographs have security built into their codes. Oh, well.

Things are very busy with MJ graduating in ten days. Assemblies and parties galore. Tomorrow the school superintendent is treating the valedictorians and salutatorians from the five Corpus Christi high schools to lunch at a local restaurant. I think this is a lovely thing to do.

We learned today that husband CB's sister will not be coming to MJ's graduation. For the graduation ceremonies of her two brothers and sisters, her aunt, uncle, cousin AND grandparents all came. DC, AE, and BJ just walked across the stage along with hundreds of other. Now for their one grandchild (and niece) who will be one of the two speakers, these relatives will not travel here. With CB's dad's frail health and the price of airline tickets, they are not coming. Valid reasons, but a little disappointing.

HOWEVER, daughter AE and partner KA are coming all the way from Seattle to Austin, where they'll meet son DC and wife AA and drive to Corpus Christi for about a 36 hour visit next weekend. Son BJ will be coming from Houston. I am a happy mother to have all my children here to celebrate their sister's graduation from high school! (On June 1, 2008)

It's too bad that the heat will be so high next week, as it is now. And June 1 is the official beginning of Hurricane Season, as well as the day of MJ's graduation.

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

My clothesline

This is my clothesline with sheets hanging on it.

One good thing about the heat in south Texas is that it is ideal to hang clothes out on the clothesline to dry. I've always liked to do that, ever since moving here. I used to hang out cloth diapers to dry!

My clothesline is behind our garage in the space between the garage and the fence.


Shine!

Matthew 5:13-16 (the Message)

Let me tell you why you are here. You’re here to be the salt-seasoning that brings out the God-flavors of this earth. If you lose your saltiness, how will people taste godliness? You’ve lost your usefulness and will end up in the garbage.

Here’s another way to put it: You’re here to be light bringing out the God-colors in the world. God is not a secret to be kept. We’re going public with this, as public as a city on a hill. If I make you light-bearers, you don’t think I’m going to hide you under a bucket, do you? I’m putting you on a light stand. Now that I’ve put you there on a hilltop, on a light stand—shine! Keep open house; be generous with your lives. By opening up to others, you’ll prompt people to open up with God, this generous Father in heaven.

Monday, May 19, 2008

STUPID!!

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Today both CB and I received separate notices that our rebate checks will arrive in three weeks or so. I don't get paid for what I do as a volunteer, so why did I get a letter, too?? What a pointless waste of money. AND these mailings with printing and postage amounted to $42 MILLION!

The news of this occurred about two weeks ago, but I wasn't expecting them to be sent to everyone, like both spouses in joint filing! So this is late news, though I am newly horrified!
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Just as an example about how that money could have been spent, though the figures were proposed eight months ago and was published in September 26, 2007 by Keith Alcorn:

"Up to $42 billion will need to be found by 2010 if universal access to HIV treatment, prevention and care is to be achieved in line with the 2005 commitment by G8 governments, UNAIDS said today."

I would have much preferred the money being spent on aid than mailed notices.


Books read meme

From Yogamum:

It’s a list of the 106 most unread books on shelves (how this was determined, I don’t know!). The rules are to bold the ones you’ve read, underline the ones you read for school, italicize the ones you started but didn’t finish. I probably read more for school, but can't remember them. Being a former English major, I sometimes think I need to re-read all these "classics" after having so many life experiences. . . .

Jonathan Strange & Mr Norrell
Anna Karenina
Crime and Punishment
Catch-22
One Hundred Years of Solitude
Wuthering Heights
The Silmarillion
Life of Pi : a novel
The Name of the Rose
Don Quixote
Moby Dick
Ulysses
Madame Bovary
The Odyssey
Pride and Prejudice
Jane Eyre
The [A] Tale of Two Cities
The Brothers Karamazov
Guns, Germs, and Steel
War and Peace
Vanity The Time Traveler’s Wife
The Iliad
Emma
The Blind Assassin
The Kite Runner
Mrs. Dalloway

Great Expectations
American Gods
A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius
Atlas Shrugged
Reading Lolita in Tehran : a memoir in books
Memoirs of a Geisha
Middlesex
Quicksilver
Wicked : the life and times of the wicked witch of the West
The Canterbury Tales

The Historian : a novel
A Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man
Love in the Time of Cholera
Brave New World
The Fountainhead
Foucault’s Pendulum
Middlemarch
Frankenstein
The Count of Monte Cristo
Dracula
A Clockwork Orange
Anansi Boys
The Once and Future King
The Grapes of Wrath
The Poisonwood Bible
1984
Angels & Demons
Inferno
The Satanic Verses
Sense and Sensibility
The Picture of Dorian Gray
Mansfield Park
One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest
To the Lighthouse
Tess of the D’Urbervilles
Oliver Twist
Gulliver’s Travels
Les Misérables

The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay
The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time
Dune
The Prince
The Sound and the Fury
Angela’s Ashes : a memoir
The God of Small Things
A People’s History of the United States : 1492-present
Cryptonomicon
Neverwhere
A Confederacy of Dunces
A Short History of Nearly Everything
Dubliners
The Unbearable Lightness of Being

Beloved
Slaughterhouse-Five
The Scarlet Letter
Eats, Shoots & Leaves
The Mists of Avalon
Oryx and Crake
Collapse : how societies choose to fail or succeed
Cloud Atlas
The Confusion
Lolita

Persuasion
Northanger Abbey
The Catcher in the Rye

On the Road
The Hunchback of Notre Dame
Freakonomics : a rogue economist explores the hidden side of everything
Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance : an inquiry into values
The Aeneid
Watership Down
Gravity’s Rainbow
The Hobbit
In Cold Blood
White Teeth
Treasure Island
David Copperfield



Sunday, May 18, 2008

Top Ten Banquet and Senior Activities

Last Tuesday night was the Top Ten Banquet for this school district, which meant that the top ten juniors and top ten seniors from each of the five high schools came together to be honored, accompanied by their parents and favorite teacher. This picture shows daughter MJ (who is #2 in her class) with CB and me after the three-hour affair was over.

This week has many events to go to for MJ and sometimes for her parents:
  • Monday: Presentation at School Board Meeting and then the Soccer Banquet for both boys and girls teams
  • Wednesday: Seniors Honor Assembly and party that night
  • Friday: Valedictorians and Salutatorians from the five high schools meet the Superintendent of schools for lunch
Also, the graduation speeches are due tomorrow, and neither of the speakers for Ray have finished the writing, which means that MJ and her boy friend are supposed to be writing right now!

Too much going on, just for seniors and their parents. And two weeks from today is the graduation, and all this will be over! Really over, because everyone will go home and MJ will go off to the summer camp where she is going to be a counselor.

I'm sure I'll fondly look back on this time as busy and happy.

Senior Sunday


Today was Senior Sunday at my former church, First United Methodist Church. There's a breakfast for the seniors and their families followed by the late church service where the seniors are recognized in their caps and gowns. There were mostly red gowns (for Ray HS, my daughter's school), but a few others were represented, too.

MJ grew up with these kids in this church since she was three years old, since we moved back to Corpus Christi from NJ. MJ is in the front row, fourth from the right.

Today's Surprise

You wait for a better world.
What's wrong with the one you have?
You wait for a liberator
To reproach your inner slave.
You wait to see the face of God,
It's staring you in the eyes.
You wait for a better future,
And you miss today's surprise.

The waiting is a problem,
To which you love to cling.
It's all about the power games,
And the delusions that they bring.
The messianic figure--
Long before you ever knew
Irrupted in creation
In the Spirit's vivid hue.

And the Spirit moves in freedom
Beyond the waiting and the now.
And the Spirit loves relating
When we don't control the "how."
Don't waste your time in waiting
For some God to intervene.
For God was never absent
From creation's epic scene.

~~Diarmuid O'Murchu

O'Murchu, Diarmuid. Catching Up with Jesus: A Gospel Story for Our Time. New York: The Crossroad Publishing Company, 2005. 94.

Saturday, May 17, 2008

"Jesus of the People"

Due to my former priest's recommendation of the book Quantum Theology, I ordered another book by author Diarmuid O'Murchu entitled Catching Up With Jesus: A Gospel Story for Our Time, which arrived in the mail today. I am really liking what I've read in the first 1 1/2 chapters, and this may motivate me to start the book with the intimidating title, Quantum Theology.

Of course, I was intrigued with O'Murchu's words about a painting of Jesus:

"In her desire to reclaim a more foundational understanding of Jesus, the contemporary American artist Janet McKenzie portrays her Jesus of the People as a black androgynous person (see National Catholic Reporter, Dec. 24, 1999). Not only is this portrayal more congruent with the archetypal identity of Jesus, but it also honors the historical alliance of God in Jesus with our ancient ancestors as we evolved in eastern Africa over several million years." (18)

© "Jesus of the People"" Late in 1999 Janet McKenzie’s painting “Jesus of the People” was selected winner of the National Catholic Reporter’s competition for a new image of Jesus by judge, Sister Wendy Beckett, host of the PBS show “Sister Wendy’s Story of Painting”. In the words of Sister Wendy, “This is a haunting image of a peasant Jesus – dark, thick-lipped, looking out on us with ineffable dignity, with sadness but with confidence. Over His white robe He draws the darkness of our lack of love, holding it to Himself, prepared to transform all sorrows if we will let Him.” "

The rest of this article is here.



Friday, May 16, 2008

Friday Five: Grand Tour

JetFrom Songbird: Many other RevGals are headed for the Festival of Homiletics in the coming week (click here for information on a RevGals meetup!!). In honor of these upcoming trips, herewith your Grand Tour Friday Five.

Name five places that fall into the following categories:

1) Favorite Destination -- someplace you've visited once or often and would gladly go again
Gold Beach, Oregon. I loved it when I was newly married and then again last year with CB!

2) Unfavorite Destination -- someplace you wish you had never been (and why)
I wish I had not gone to NJ house hunting when my mother was dying of cancer, because she had so little time left, and I didn't know it. But we were moving, and our first house deal fell through and so I had to go by myself and choose one of the houses my husband had pre-selected.

3) Fantasy Destination -- someplace to visit if cost and/or time did not matter
I wish I could be on Mount Athos in Greece, but women are not allowed. I'd like to go to Alaska, to Machu Pichu, to Iona, to Isle of Skye, and so many places!

4) Fictional Destination -- someplace from a book or movie or other art or media form you would love to visit, although it exists only in imagination
Hogwarts!

5) Funny Destination -- the funniest place name you've ever visited or want to visit
Lukulu--in the outer regions of Zambia, where I spent almost two weeks in 2006.