Monday, December 31, 2012

Questions for 2012

Today being the last day of 2012, it is a time to look back upon the year and consider what I learned from its events. I liked the questions asked by Elizabeth O'Connor as quoted on Inward/Outward that are below. I numbered the questions in the arrangement that pleased me. You may want to choose one or two to ponder.

1. What took place in your home relations? Your work relations? Your church relations? What events in the larger community of city, country and world most captured your attention?

2. Who were the significant people in your life? What books and art instructed your mind and heart?

3. Did you create anything this year? Did you make any new discoveries about yourself? How were you gift last year to a person, a community or an institution?
 
4. What was your greatest joy in this year gone? What was your greatest sorrow? What caused you the most disappointment? What caused you the most sadness?

5. In what areas of your life did you grow? Were these areas related to your joy or your pain?
What are your regrets? How would you do things differently, if you could live the year again? What did you learn?

6. Did you have a recurring dream? What theme or themes ran through your year?

7. Did you grow in your capacity to be a person in community--to bear your own burdens, to let others bear theirs? Did you have sufficient time apart with yourself?

8. Did you root your life more firmly in Scripture? Did you grow in your understanding of yourself? What was your most important insight? Did God seem near or far off?

9. How do you want to create the new year? What kind of commitment do you want to make to yourself? Your community? To the oppressed people of the world? How do the questions about commitment make you feel? Angry? Challenged? Hopeful?

10. Who are the people with whom you would like to deepen your relationships in the year to come? Do you have relationships that need to be healed? What can you do to heal your own heart? What can others do to assist in your healing?

11. Is there a special piece of inward work that you would like to accomplish? Is there a special outward work? 

12. What are the goals that seem important to you? What are your hopes? What are your fears? What are the immediate first steps that you can take toward the goals that seem important to you?

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5 comments:

Robin said...

These are great questions, Jan. Thanks!

Terri said...

Good questions, a lot of questions....I may decide to answer a couple of these, later....

Katherine E. said...

Wonderful -- thanks, Jan!

Robin said...

This has been fascinating. I have spent some of my lonely New Year's Eve (sick husband, bored son) working through some of this along with some material from one of the books suggested on Revgals last week, and I have learned that I have accomplished a great deal in the last year, objectively speaking, but that my personal assessment of its quality is a resounding mediocre. Lots to think about in terms of what I do and how and why, and where I find satisfaction, and where my values and my daily life do an don't align with one another.

ROBERTA said...

LOL. I did the same thing on my blog! Great minds think alike! Happy New Year!